Friday, June 15, 2007

Crossdressing with Pride

Being an outward crossdresser in my daily life should be done with pride, that's what I believe.

In this place called Los Angeles, it is our freedom and right to be self expressive. It is who we are and what defines us. I see that as a crossdresser I am gawked at, ignored, or get feelings of animosity from others; it's nerve racking I admit, I am not made out of steel. But I feel it is my right to be ultimately what I want.

Who defines what a woman should be and man? Society, I understand this of-course, we all move in fashion that is socially acceptable. This is human behavior at it's roots, from animals to us, social behavior is hardwired in our genes.

However, there is no reason why these cannot be challenged. I feel as the transgendered self, that I should be able to express myself as a feminine male. I wear my high heels now, women's pants, blouses and bra, etc. Outwardly I am expressing myself as a female, yet my anatomy indicates otherwise.

So what! I am free to be who I am and what I want. As a feminine male at work, well then, so be it.

Self expression should be done with pride, as a crossdresser or chick with a Mohawk, yes there is woman by my day job that I see with a Mohawk and rides a pink Beach Cruiser to work. See that is self expression at it's best. Even I stared at her, but at the same time, I nodded my head in agreement and happiness.

That is why I who I am, because we are all in a struggle to express oneself, we should then do our part, and make that one step to introduce us a crossdressing/transgendered community to the world at large, even if is just in this small city called Los Angeles.

-xxx's

Delilah K.

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